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Subject: Chemotherapy
From: Robbyn not@thistime.com
Date: 10/17/00 7:47 PM Eastern Daylight Time
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Hi folks :)

I'm going to be starting chemotherapy next week - Cytoxan and Adriamycin (Cyclophosphamide and Doxorubicin).
I'd appreciate any tips/advice you have to offer.

Thanks so much :)

Robbyn (thinking she just might miss the waist length hair more than the breast...)
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: Boomer Boomer_Baby@hotmail.com
Date: 10/17/00 8:02 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <39ECE8B1.1023@hotmail.com>

Hi Robbyn

The biggest help for me...were
eat a big yummy meal before and on the day of treatment
drink tons TONS of water.
I took a huge water bottle with me.

Maybe take a walkman or book with you?
My Onc had small tv/vcr in the rooms (we could get the treatments in a big room with a bunch of other people or in quiet private rooms) and I watched tv and I thought about bringing a movie for the vcr...but
always forgot.

At home...maybe stock up on yogart, pudding, jello's or any kind of baby type foods or liquid foods like Boost. These were helpful after first treatment. I had about 6 mini meals a day.

Also I set up my couch (at home of course) extra comfortable....lots of pillows, books, sugar free candies. I pampered myself.

But the big meal and lots of water were the biggest helps!!!!!!!!
(And I should have kept a journal/diary.)

If you get a temp. Call onc right away.

Big Hugs
Boomer
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: Catharine Honeyman cathony@spamcop.net
Date: 10/17/00 11:50 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <20001017235014.239$8I@newsreader.com>

Robbyn wrote:

> I'm going to be starting chemotherapy next week - Cytoxan and Adriamycin (Cyclophosphamide and Doxorubicin).

Brr.

> I'd appreciate any tips/advice you have to offer.

Eat a big meal before you get your first treatment. I had no effects during the first treatment. Afterwards, I went back to my hotel and took a nap... woke up and felt weird. Had problems sleeping that night, and weird, awful dreams. Woke up the next day, and nausea started.

The second day after that, I was confused. That's "chemo-brain."

Get as many anti-nausea meds from your doc as you can, and try them all, in various mixes. For me, the nausea peaked on the second or third day after the treatment, and then rapidly got better. One of the things that helped for me, oddly enough, was keeping my mouth very very clean (floss and brush after each meal) and chewing sugar-free gum.

And beware teh "blorp!" That's what I called the surprise vomit! The drugs are actually very good at keeping you from vomiting, but they didn't do very much for my nausea. However, about a week after the third treatment, I was minding my own business, feeling fine, when: "Blorp!" I threw up without feeling like I needed to!

And yes, I missed my waist-length hair much more than my breasts. But now it's about 2" long and I kind of like the short length. It's very convenient.

I highly recommend cutting your hair very short right before it should fall out. I think that's gotta be less traumatic.

--
Aloha,
Catharine

Eat that which is good, and let your soul delight itself in fatness.
--Isaiah 55:2
 


Subject: Come On Re: Chemotherapy
From: Boomer Boomerunderscorebaby@hotmail.com
Date: 10/18/00 5:32 AM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <39ED6E4A.250F@hotmail.com>


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Ladies and Gentlemen...
There are over 50 of us lurkers and non-lurkers......

any more suggestions for Robbyn?????????????????????????

Water water water
and Hugs
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: Boomer Boomerunderscorebaby@hotmail.com
Date: 10/18/00 6:37 AM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <39ED7D80.6CAA@hotmail.com>



I love the http://www.noah.cuny.edu/cancer/ site.
Here's a bit more info:
http://www.noah.cuny.edu/cancer/cancercare/patients/briefs/chemo.html
and lastly.................
http://www.bannerhealthaz.com/services/cancer/chemo.html

Hugs
Boomer
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: allan grossman abuse@localhost
Date: 10/18/00 7:41 AM Eastern Daylight Time
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On Tue, 17 Oct 2000 19:47:59 -0400, Robbyn <not@thistime.com> wrote:


Robbyn -

Everyone's experience with chemo is different and the ladies on thelist can advise you a lot better than I can but I have a couple of tips.

Unfortunately with AC there's not much doubt that you'll lose your hair - but it'll grow back. My wife Deborah's hair is about 2" long now too - and it's starting to curl. A lot of women may tell you that losing your hair is as traumatic as losing a breast.

Drink lotsa water and park at your onc's doorstep if you have any vomiting. There are lots of things they can do - and although what Deborah called a "wobbly stomach" is pretty normal for about day 2-5 after treatment between the Decadron and Zofran or Kytril or something else there's a lot they can do to keep nausea and vomiting under control. Take all the antinausea meds even if you feel okay - Zofran and Kytril don't work worth beans if you're already vomiting. They keep you from getting sick so stay on schedule with the antinausea meds. They'll probably write you a script for Compazine for any breakthrough nausea. Deborah found that Compazine brought its own set of issues but I think for most people it works just fine. Remember that your onc *can* adjust dosages or eliminate some meds you might have problems with - Deborah is hypersensitive to Benadryl - they eventually had to cut it out of her premeds completely.

The premeds they give you will probably cause a sleepless night or two - that's normal. Expect to be tired after chemo - but you'll do fine.

On the hair thing you might give some thought to cutting it short soon as it'll make a pretty huge mess about 14 days after your first treatment. Sleep with a hair net on to keep the stuff out of the bed and get one of those screen thingies that go in the bathtub drain to keep hair from clogging the bathtub.

Deborah lost her hair pretty evenly and was able to hide the fact that she was losing her hair for about a week and a half after it started coming out - when she couldn't hide it anymore we shaved her head. Some people will tell you this is a good idea - both for physical and emotional comfort.

You're the customer, Robbyn - the onc works for you.

You can do this - we're all behind you.

hugs -

allan grossman
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: "R. Chandrasekaran" chandra@waymark.net
Date: 10/18/00 12:34 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <surd8lreq5aaca@corp.supernews.com>

As others have already noted:

Kytril, Compazine for nausea
Senakot or some thing similar for constipation induced sometimes by the above.
Things like ensure, apricot nectar etc ( a variety because you do nt know what you might not like)
Plastic utensils? (in case of metallic feeling)

Dring fluids -- if you are a small frame person in extremely rare cases (this happened to my wife) cytoxan may have an effect called hyponatremia. Check with your doctor.

It seems to hit hard on second and third days after the chemo.

Adriamycin will in most cases affect your hair. But it grows back after the chemo.

Our prayers and best wishes for an uneventful chemo.

Sincerely yours,

R. Chandrasekaran

 



Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: "Rachel Kirk" Rachel.Anne.Kirk@ukgateway.net
Date: 10/18/00 10:22 AM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <8skf7i$m99$1@lure.pipex.net>

I'll be thinking of you next week Robbyn! I had CMF so I don't know much about the exact side effects of Adriamycin. I echo everything that has been said about hair ( I had mine cut short and it's still short 2 years on because it looks great! ), water.....just keep sipping ( I also had camomile tea but can't even bear to be in the same room as the stuff now....negative associations I expect! ) food before chemo, ( I couldn't face a big meal but I kept eating a little bit at a time all morning while the chemo was being given. I mainly ate big German bread pretzels because they were filling but plain. We were living near Munich at the time!!! ) Exercising is fine but listen to your own body....it'll let you know pretty quickly if you're overdoing it. One of the girls I had chemo with carried on running throughout and getting fit fo the ski season....I took it as an opportunity to slow down a bit and live life at a gentler, kinder pace for a few months.
Don't forget to schedule some treats just for you.....you deserve it!!!
Hugs
Rachel
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: Robbyn not@thistime.com
Date: 10/18/00 11:41 AM Eastern Daylight Time
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On Wed, 18 Oct 2000 16:22:53 +0200, "Rachel Kirk"
<Rachel.Anne.Kirk@ukgateway.net> wrote:

>water.....just keep sipping ( I also had camomile
>tea but can't even bear to be in the same room as the stuff now....

LOL - I can't stand to be in the same room with it now! Hate the stuff - though my SO uses it occasionally when she's having trouble sleeping. I take the point about the water though and will plan to have a goodly supply on hand :)

>food before chemo, ( I couldn't face a big meal but
>I kept eating a little bit at a time all morning while the chemo was being
>given.

Really? While the chemo was administered? <amazed> I guess I'll have to think about this eating thing.

> Exercising is fine but listen to your own body....it'll let you know pretty quickly if you're
>overdoing it. One of the girls I had chemo with carried on running
>throughout and getting fit fo the ski season

I suppose you have to admire that kind of determination not to let the cancer (and its consequences) change your life. Not being a skier (not suicidal :) I think I'll pass on the running and stick to the walks :)

>Don't forget to schedule some treats just for you.....you deserve it!!!

Homemade macaroni and cheese! My favorite comfort food :)

Thanks Rachel - this all helps so much.

Robbyn (for whom the THOUGHT of nausea makes her nauseous!)


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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: Robbyn not@thistime.com
Date: 10/18/00 11:44 AM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <qsTtOd2oZb72KuCxmJeeCgRrfzrJ@4ax.com>


>Senakot or some thing similar for constipation induced sometimes by the
>above.

Good point, I hadn't thought of that...

>Things like ensure, apricot nectar etc ( a variety because you do nt know
>what you might not like)

Also a good idea. Does chemo affect the way you taste things? Might something I love taste foul to me while I'm having the treatment?

>Plastic utensils? (in case of metallic feeling)

Already prepared for that one :)

>Adriamycin will in most cases affect your hair. But it grows back after the
>chemo.

I'm trying hard not to get too freaked out by this :)

>Our prayers and best wishes for an uneventful chemo.

Thanks most kindly and sincerely :)

Robbyn
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: "Alex Koffman" akoffman@mediaone.net
Date: 10/18/00 2:20 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <URlH5.60704$tn.1241492@typhoon.ne.mediaone.net>

I had Kytril and Zofran ( zofran given IV ) and Kytril by mouth, these are expensive drugs but I did not experience one bit a of nausea or vomiting. Compazine is an old drug and very cheap, it is not as effective against nausea as the above drugs. The Kytril and Zofran have to be given at the time of chemo or they won't work.

I you are goin g to get a wig, I would do before my hairloss. I also cut and shaved my head prior to chemo.

I didn't feel the effects of the chemo until the next day and then it was like flu like symptoms. The day I got my chemo I felt pretty good. The loss of my hair was much worse than surgery for me. The good news is when my hair grew back the gray was gone!  Lastly, I don't know how old you are, but if you still get priods, they will never be the same again. If you are premenopausal you have a good chance of getting hot flashes.



Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: "Tina(r)" kaceyjo@uslink.net
Date: 10/18/00 2:36 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <k4mH5.6279$4j7.2200778@ratbert.tds.net>

Robbyn!
You are going to do fine with this chemo! The others have given you some wonderful tips, and I don't actually have much to add.

My Onc prescribed Ativan (Lorazapam) for my nausea, and it is the one thing that worked so very well for me. It also made me tired, so I slept at night. Oh, I do know one thing that has not been mentioned here, did you have a port-a-cath put in, or will they be using your veins? I do not have a port-a-cath, and the last treatment of AC that I had was difficult, because the nurses had to all take turns poking me, trying to find a vein.

I had AC before surgery, with Taxol now after surgery. When I went into surgery, I asked my surgeon to put in a port-a-cath, and she told me I had great veins, and would not need one. I told her that is not what the Onc nurses said, so she suggested, (and here is my BIG tip of the day) that I have a heat pack on my hand and arm on the way to the clinic. If you have your veins warmed up, they tend to pop up better, and roll less. I have this wonderful heat pack that you put in the microwave, and I take that with me.

Now, on drinking water.. drink as much as you can before treatment, this also helps with the veins! Also, drink as much as you can AFTER! Immediately after you have chemo, try to go to the bathroom as often as possible too. You want to get the "A" flushed out of your kidneys.

And yes, eating before treatment is very recommended. I did not eat before my first treatment, and my Onc made me go down to the coffee shop and eat something before he would allow me to have treatment.

One thing you asked about food and tastes, tastes can, and probably will get messed up for you during treatment. Also, the one thing that bothered me the absolute most was SMELLS. I am not sure if this is common to all or not, but I could not stand the smell of anything! I do mean that. Anything at all that smelled like anything drove me batty. I spent many hours outside in the breeze to flush out my sinus. Things that taste bad will taste good again after treatment, or maybe even between treatments.

Good Luck Robbyn!
Big Hugs!
Tina



Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: "Glenys Earnshaw" earnshaw@themail.co.uk
Date: 10/18/00 3:01 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <8sl4li$lp8$1@supernews.com>

Hello Robbyn!

I've been reading all the advice you've received re your chemo and though mention has been made of the metal taste you may get, nothing has been said about the thick furry coating you get in your mouth. I found this really awful, as did three other women I know who were having treatment the same time as I was. One even got a bad dose of thrush in her mouth and mouth ulcers as well! You should definitely have supplies of jelly, fruit, yogurt etc - I practically lived on fruit and jelly. But, getting back to the furry coating, the hosp. gave me bottles of mouthwash to use but I didn't find them much good. Then, one of the chemo nurses told me to drink pineapple juice as this has some kind of enzyme in it that helps get rid of the `furriness'. So I bought in a supply of those mini cartons of juice, kept some to drink and froze some into ice cubes, then I could suck on one whenever I needed to. It really worked for me.

Good luck with the chemo, we`ll all be with you in spirit (even those of us who normally only lurk).
Glenys.



Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: cateme@webtv.net (Cathy Emerson)
Date: 10/18/00 11:39 AM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <8739-39EDC449-8@storefull-172.iap.bryant.webtv.net>

You are right Robbyn, you will miss your hair more than your breast. I never cried thru getting a horrible diagnosis & prognosis, losing a breast. But boy I sobbed when I lost my hair. It is your identity. So "out there". Where as a breast is generally hidden. Also losing the cancerous breast feels like you are getting rid of the bad guy. Losing your hair (and I mean every single hair on your body) seems pointless. I had my son shave my head when it started to go 14 days after 1st treatment. He was more than happy to oblige. I think that was easier than having long hair falling out gradually all over the place. Go shopping for wigs/hats/scarves ahead of time so you will be ready and not have to do it when you feel self conscious and not feeling good. I never had the guts to go without as some brave women do. Only my son saw me bald.
Good luck Robbyn!!!! Cathy



Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: Robbyn not@thistime.com
Date: 10/18/00 12:26 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <H87tOSoVqX0wklJm6rTe0XmCGjdJ@4ax.com>

On Wed, 18 Oct 2000 08:39:53 -0700 (PDT), cateme@webtv.net (Cathy Emerson) wrote:

> Also losing the
>cancerous breast feels like you are getting rid of the bad guy. Losing
>your hair (and I mean every single hair on your body) seems pointless.

Ahh - THAT feels right. Thanks Cathy - that's a BIG help. I was feeling a bit guilty about mourning something as non-essential and replaceable as my hair.

>never had the guts to go without as some brave women do. Only my son saw
>me bald.

Only my SO will see me bald - and I don't think it's a matter of guts at all. Partly it's a matter of pride in appearance (something I think is difficult for many of us to manage) and not being willing to throw our conditions in the faces of complete strangers. None of their business. If I wanted to attract attention, I would have been a stripper - though <reflecting> given the number of times I've taken my clothes off away from home in the last month..... <g>

Robbyn
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: allan grossman abuse@localhost
Date: 10/18/00 1:31 PM Eastern Daylight Time
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On Wed, 18 Oct 2000 12:26:04 -0400, Robbyn <not@thistime.com> wrote:


I had to pick this up and run with it, Robbyn -

I only saw Deborah with a wig twice - once at a close friends' wedding and once at my company Christmas party. Both times she didn't want to attract a lot of attention to herself - I *never* asked (or expected) her to wear a wig.

I don't think it's an attention thing - although being a stripper brings up interesting possibilities, I guess. It's fun to think about, anyway :)

I wish Deborah read this ng - she said that if anyone had a problem with her going bald she was sorry they had a problem - it certainly wasn't her fault she had cancer. She's also never worn a prosthesis and hasn't had reconstruction yet (she had to have her tissue expander removed due to infection). People who did look would look at her head, then their eyes would drop to her chest and then they'd invariably look away.

I've never been more proud of her - people were aware that bc was *still* a problem. Lots of times she wore floppy hats, sometimes baseball caps or scarves. I also found out that I liked kissing her on top of her bald head - which is a good trick since Deborah is taller than I am. I have to catch her sitting down. It's not quite as much fun not that there's a couple of inches of hair there.

Robbyn, you're an acceptable, worthwhile person with or without hair. Your SO sounds like a gem - I'm glad she's supporting you. It does make me a little crazy when I see women who don't think they're complete unless everything is just perfect - we've done a pretty lousy job of outlining roles for women *and* men.

You'll do fine. When your hair does come out, do what's comfortable. Some people feel that wigs aren't.

hugs,

allan grossman
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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: "Alex Koffman" akoffman@mediaone.net
Date: 10/18/00 2:25 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <4WlH5.60708$tn.1241570@typhoon.ne.mediaone.net>

I would add, I comfortable tee shirt or camisole, my skin was very sensitive after surgery. I also bought large body size pillows, since I didn't want to roll on my stomach during the night. It also helped to keep my husband form bumping into me during the night.



Subject: Re: Come On Re: Chemotherapy
From: marytoes@webtv.net (mary rose a-s.)
Date: 10/18/00 9:37 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <17036-39EE503F-9@storefull-293.iap.bryant.webtv.net>

i had cmf so i don't know anything about those drugs, and ( sorry about this) i did not get nauseous or sick from treatment. mildly queasy is about it. cut my hair from middle of my back to very short and never lost my hair. there went about 6 years of growing it. wish i could help. it really affects everyone differently. i was nauseous when i did radiation with chemo, but only for about 10 minutes right after treatment.

love and prayers,
mary rose

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like its never gonna hurt.--unknown



Subject: Re: Come On Re: Chemotherapy
From: Christine811@webtv.net (Christine Williams)
Date: 10/18/00 11:56 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <12173-39EE70DF-96@storefull-268.iap.bryant.webtv.net>

Hi Robbyn,
I think one of the most helpful hints that I was given when I was going through Chemo was to eat with plastic utensils. This helps with the metal taste.



Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: hopsshe@my-deja.com
Date: 10/19/00 9:20 AM Eastern Daylight Time
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I found biscotti has helped some of the nausea. I am finding that I can't stand the taste of water. metallic tasting. On CEF. The vomiting has stopped by taking Anzemet and Stemetil. Most of my hair has fallen out. On round 2 of Chemo. I kinda look like a fuzz ball. I expect by the end of this round the rest will come out. Any idea when the eyebrows go ?


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Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: Pattycake patricia@firedept.net
Date: 10/19/00 1:51 PM Eastern Daylight Time
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Robbyn wrote:

> I'm feeling this myself, but damned if it seems to make any sense to
> me. I mean keeping the breast would have killed me eventually, but
> it's irreplaceable. The hair will grow back ( I KNOW this) but the
> idea of looking like a big, oddly proportioned egg for a while mildly
> traumatizes me :)

Dave Berry once wrote a column asking why black men like Micheal Jordan look so good, bald when white men just looked like a big white thumb. This is what I look like. A big white thumb! But it is cool and I don't use a lot of shampoo.

Pat From Apple Valley CA


Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: "Janelle Blight" blightj@netlink.com.au
Date: 10/20/00 8:50 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <8sqpg6$pub$1@news.netlink.com.au>

Hi there Cathy,

It is bad enough dealing with cancer let alone loose your hair. My mother is undergoing chemotherapy and she was so worried about losing here hair. I think that it is the worse part of chemo. Luckly where my mother has chemothapy she was offered to go on a trial for using a cap to stop her loosing her hair. It was called a Paxman Cooling Cap and you were it before the chemo and after and the results are fantastic, she is nearlly finished 6 months of chemo and has lost very little hair. She was the 4th person to use the cap in Australia and now there are about 36 women on the trial it is great.


I dont think she would have managed if she lost her hair. So ask you oncologist it is never to late to try it as it generated the growth of new hair.


Janelle Blight
Australia


Subject: Re: Metal Mouth
From: Jay & Shelly Fallihee fallij@nwlink.com
Date: 10/23/00 7:52 PM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <39F4CF32.550C91BE@nwlink.com>

I had trouble with 'metal mouth' during chemo too. Chewing wintergreen gum seemed to help the best. A friend had good luck with lemon drops, but they caused sores on my tongue. Also, even though you probably don't feel like drinking water, it really helps. Good luck. Shelly



Subject: Re: Starting Chemo
From: Catharine Honeyman cathony@spamcop.net
Date: 11/15/00 9:12 PM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <20001115211213.102$ah@newsreader.com>

Peg Dietrich wrote:

> Assuming all goes well, I start chemo on Friday.

Brr. Yay for you. Keep your chin up.

I can't remember what kind of chemo you're having. For what it's worth, here are my experinces.

With C/A, I felt kind of weird and spacey when I got home from chemo. I fell asleep very quickly (I think it was the Benadryl they gave me) and the weirdest thing is that, you know, myoclonal jerks? When you're falling asleep and you suddenly feel like you're falling? For me, that was weird. Instead of the falling feeling, it was a crashing, percussion feeling, like I was hit by a car. Very interesting and it only happened twice.

You pee bright red as the C/A is leaving your body. Do not freak.

The third day after each C/A treatment was my worst day of nausea. I was also tired and wanted to nap a lot.

I didn't actualy throw up a whole lot. I was on Zofran. Take it whether or not you feel like it and you should be okay.

I had a couple of the little surprise throw-ups around the third treatment. Then I learned to avoid bending over with food in my stomach.

Most distressing to me was that I pooped in my pants a couple of times. The chemo nurses said that the chemo just freaked my body out so much I lost potty training. Beware: if you feel like you need to go to the bathroom, GO. Do not wait. Wow, that upset me. I guess my mom trained me too hard!

I think the lingering effects of chemo brain are still with me. I have problems with spelling, in spite of the fact that I am a professional proofreader! Chemobrain may also make your head feel like it's stuffed with cotton. It sucks the worst.

With taxotere, I am not having such bad side effects. I am tired, and I wake up around 3:00 a.m. and can't get back to sleep. I am only mildly nauseated, and Benadryl takes care of that. I am constipated for the first time in my *life*, which is kind of freaky, but it's better than pooping my pants like I did with the C/A, I must say! :) I was having problems with bowel cramping the last couple of weeks, but not this time. Yay.

--
Aloha,
Catharine

Eat that which is good, and let your soul delight itself in fatness.
--Isaiah 55:2


Subject: Re: Starting Chemo
From: Robbyn not@thistime.com
Date: 11/15/00 10:36 PM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <EFITOukVCvBoOn=lILRlNqf83tB2@4ax.com>

On Wed, 15 Nov 2000 20:18:39 -0500, "Peg Dietrich"
<snpdietrich@acd.net> wrote:

> Ok, people, time to pull out your bad memories and give me some advice.
>Assuming all goes well, I start chemo on Friday. I've got the hair-part
>covered -- got my hair cut really short, bot a wig from the wig bank, and
>cried a whole bunch. Now lets move on to the other bad side effect of
>chemo -- throwing up. Any suggestions? More importantly, *when* did you
>get sick? That day? The next day? First thing in the morning? How
>did/you feel *after* the individual treatments (i.e. that evening)?
>Anything else you can add would help!

Hi Peg

I just had my second dose of A/C yesterday (2 more to go). The worst part for me is during the actual administration of the Adriamycin. For about 30 seconds, despite the preadministration of three anti-emetics (including Zofran) there is a period of extreme nausea. I haven't thrown up either the first time or this time, but I sure wish they'd give me a bucket to hold just in case.

Afterwards I feel weird - not real bad, but certainly spacey - like the world is about a half a beat off. I have compazine for nausea and it seems to do fine though it gives me the burps. That's better than throwing up though.

Over the following three week period, there is diarrhrea (not a change in the pattern of bowel movements but in the consistency) and when I feel the need to go I had better get to a bathroom POST haste. There's no room for negotiation here. When the delivery men arrive, you get to an unloading dock as quickly as possible :)

My sleep cycle changes too. For a while I couldn't sleep any more than three hours at a time. That was a serious pain in the ass though it too can be managed if you time things right. I was able to get enough sleep, I just couldn't get it all in one shot as I used to. This seems to come and go, is not constant and may have as much to do with tension (I tend to sit on things a lot) as with medication.

And fatigue, of course. While it isn't constant either, there are times I get so tired I don't even have the energy to lay down. My SO has to push me over. This doesn't happen all the time and is more likely to take place on a very busy day when I'm not paying attention to my energy levels and just doing things as though everything was completely normal - which, of course, it's not.

I had major chills today - every time I got out from under the blankets I was shuddering. That will probably be gone by tomorrow and I don't remember it happening last time. I don't remember a lot about last time though as it was the first time and most of my attention was taken up in worrying about what to expect and frustration at having to wait for more than two hours to get under way.

I hope things go well and as easily as possible for you Peg. I'll hold a good thought :)

Robbyn

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Subject: Re: Starting Chemo
From: kathycathey@webtv.net (kathy cathey)
Date: 11/16/00 10:36 AM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <6307-3A13FF19-6@storefull-102.iap.bryant.webtv.net>

Peg; They have a nausea med called Zofran to take after chemo. Out of 4 treatments I only go sick once, cause  I took the pill late. Check it out. Good luck. Sincerely, Kathy



Subject: Re: Starting Chemo
From: jeanicerex@aol.com (Jeanicerex)
Date: 11/17/00 5:23 AM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <20001117052352.06826.00000101@ng-mj1.aol.com>

Dear Peg--

I did the chemo thing Sept 99 to Feb 00. First it was A/C. The chemo nurses called it Hawaiian Punch because of the color. It comes out in your urine pretty much the same shade: surprising, but not unattractive. It nauseated me almost immediately (to this day, when I go back to the treatment center to get my porta-cath flushed, I get nauseated as I'm leaving). Compazine helped, but it made me really sleepy. Even when the nausea was under control/absent, I had no appetite. Then, five days later, I was starving. Either way, eat what feels/sounds/tastes good. Comfort food is good. I lived on mashed potatoes with lots of butter, and steamed milk with vanilla and cinnamon.

In anticipation of hair loss, I shaved it off. Fortunately, I had shave it off a couple years earlier when my mom started her last round of chemo, and I knew it didn't look too bad. I even got married with no hair, ten days after the last chemo, eleven days before the lumpectomy. You should see my wedding pictures. The glare is pretty bad in some of them. But the bride is beautiful, and the groom is handsome.

Anyway, in some ways the taxotere was harder. I was okay for a couple of days, and then got leg cramps like you would not believe. This was in addition achy bones cause by the shots I was getting to boost my white counts. But they gave me some great pain pills for all of that. With the taxotere, I also took steroids to minimize the likelihood of an allergic reaction. These made me hungry, hyper, and horny. The taxotere also made me extremely constipated. For me, a glass of prune juice the night before treatment was very effective.  That, and LOTS of water.

By this time, the neuropathy in my feet was getting pretty bad. It started as tingling in my toes, and eventually became an aching numbness up past my ankles. Two months after the last treatment, my feet were back to normal.

Yes, it was hard. No, I didn't like it. But, for what it's worth, I worked through everything. I'm a banquet cook, so I'm on my feet and working with food. I cut back on my work load, but I did keep working. The support I got there was priceless. Besides, worrying about someone else's wedding reception, surprise birthday party, or cocktail reception was a distraction from my own stuff.

And your life does keep going while you're doing all this. On Christmas Eve, two days after chemo, my sweetie proposed to me. I also lost my mother to cancer after a six year fight. For her, and the rest of my family, I had to win. Giving in was never an option.

You said you wanted to hear all the bad, ugly stuff. Here's something beautifull: friends. You will be amazed at how many you have. Don't be afraid to lean on them. True friends only become stronger for being needed.
Trust me on this.

If you have any questions, or just need to vent, please feel free.

Jeanice Adams Rexhausen
jeanicerex@aol.com


Subject: Re: chemo
From: Catharine Honeyman cathony@spamcop.net
Date: 11/30/00 1:36 PM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <20001130133603.355$1f@newsreader.com>

Peg Dietrich wrote:

> Peg
> who starts chemo tomorrow, maybe

Well, have fun! Here is what I have learned about chemo (the good stuff): The chemo nurses are the greatest healers ever put on the earth. The other people you meet in chemo humble you and keep you perking along. You'll never know what a beatiful head you have until you lose your hair. It's also kind of a sick adventure and it really gives me a sense that I am FIGHTING this thing. I feel very brave.

--
Aloha,
Catharine

Eat that which is good, and let your soul delight itself in fatness.
--Isaiah 55:2


Subject: Re: chemo
From: skidor@webtv.net
Date: 12/1/00 3:51 AM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <28284-3A27668D-103@storefull-106.iap.bryant.webtv.net>

Hi Jane
My name is Doris and I post here every once in a while, but I always read all the posts and feel like I know all of these wonderful people, they are all great.
Cancer is a scary disease, but somehow we get thru it, I had BC 11 years ago, the cancer is gone but I'm still living with the side effects of the surgerys chemo and tamoxifen.
Now, what I wanted to tell you, when I was doing Chemo, the day before I will rent comedy videos and when I got home I will get in bed and watch videos all day long, somehow this will make me feel better, maybe doing this will help you too.
Warm Regards
Doris Ginsberg



Subject: Re: Weepy eyes?
From: "Deborah L. Smith" dzuke@optonline.net
Date: 1/3/01 12:00 PM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <3A535AB6.4D4B0944@optonline.net>

yes, I've been weeping this past week as well - the nurse said it's due to low platelet count (affects the mucus membranes) which can also cause nose bleeds. I have those as well. I think I have 1 eyelash left and have also lost most of my eyebrows. I like to make believe I'm in a sci-fi movie. In a way, I think it looks rather sexy!

Deborah

Catharine Honeyman wrote:

> Has anyone else had eyelashes fall out during Taxotere, and, if so, did
> your eyes get (and stay) weepy? My eyelashes appear to be thinning out.
> My eyes have been weeping for about a week now. Just tears; I don't think
> it's an infection. I'm on an antihistamine, so I don't think it's an
> allergy. I varied the goop I use on my face, in case I suddenly became
> allergic to my eye goop. No redness of either the eyelids or sclera, so
> I'm thinking maybe it's just a reaction to not having as much protection as
> usual?
>
> --
> Aloha,
> Catharine
>
> Eat that which is good, and let your soul delight itself in fatness.
> --Isaiah 55:2


Subject: Re: Food to help w/ chemo?
From: "A. P. Thorsen" apt77@dontsendspam.hotmail.com
Date: 1/16/01 6:43 PM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <3A64DCBA.52690873@dontsendspam.hotmail.com>

Doghairs123 wrote:

> Also is there some sort of food (like ginger ale and crackers) : ) that she
> should have with her if or when she feels *not so good* ?

Those are good suggestions (ginger ale and crackers).

I'm sure it differs for everyone, but what I could eat/drink the soonest after AC chemo, were (roughly in chronological order of keep-down-ability):

warm/hot water
room temperature ginger ale (maybe let get slightly flat)
hot milk
bananas
plain crackers (white water crackers or saltine-type crackers)
instant potatoes (they come in a paper cup for lunch use) or potato soup
instant oatmeal with hot milk & sugar
macaroni and cheese

I phased this stuff in during the first 24-48 hours after treatment, starting with very small amounts at a time. Even later (for a few days) it helped me to eat small amounts more frequently (every hour or two), and chew thoroughly. I carried a small plastic bag of the plain crackers, plus some hard candies, around in my purse in case I hadn't had a chance to eat in a while & started feeling queasy.

During the "slow sipping" stage, it helped to put the hot water in one of those insulated travel mugs so it stayed the nicest temperature longer.

But they (onco nurses) tell me I had more trouble with AC vomiting & nausea than most people do, so your friend may be able to handle more foods more quickly than I could. I don't want to be too scary!

Another thing I found -- though it has nothing to do with food -- was that the nausea was reduced if I slept propped up (i.e., semi-sitting) so gravity was on my side. I got one of those wedge pillows people use for reading in bed, which was more comfortable than a stack of regular pillows.

If your friend does have significant problems with vomiting or nausea, make sure she tells the doctor or chemo nurses -- my chemo nurses kept getting different anti-nausea prescriptions for me until the situation improved, and also scheduled me for extra IV fluids with the chemo, and the next day. By the last treatment, my side effects were much reduced vs. where I started out. They were great allies for me, but can't help unless one tells them what side effects one has.

It's great that you're doing so much to try to help your friend. I don't know what I would have done without the friends & relatives who have helped me (staying overnight at my place on the worst days, running errands, doing some of my household chores, bringing me food). Your friend is lucky to have you!

Ann



Subject: Re: Chemo question
From: "Pam" cococat3@home.com
Date: 1/24/01 12:09 PM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <j%Db6.106766$ge4.37749364@news2.rdc2.tx.home.com>

This is what was recommended to help prevent mouth sores. I did not have any problem with them until the second to last treatment ( of 6 months). And had to get a prescription for it then.
Make a mouth rinse with 1 tsp. baking soda, 1 tsp. salt in 1 qt. of water and rinse mouth after meals and at bedtime. --I just kept a small container of the dry mix by sink and mixed with water when needed. Avoid mouthwashes with alcohol. Hope this helps. ~Pam~



Subject: Re: Radiation ends. Chemo begins.
From: Catharine Honeyman Cramer cathony@spamcop.net
Date: 2/20/01 12:26 PM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <20010220122633.737$Yi@newsreader.com>

Tracy Spaulding wrote:
> She says that her
> yeast infection in her mouth does not seem to be going away even though
> she has the "magic mouthwash"and the Diflucan.

The yeast infection (also called thrush) takes a LONG time to go away. Here are a couple of hints that my dentist gave me, which really sped up the process.

First off, keep your mouth ABSOLUTELY clean (brush and floss after each time you eat or before each time you use the Nystatin {the magic mouthwash}) and use a clean toothbrush each time you brush. That sounds expensive, but what I did was beg some free toothbrushes from my dentist (she gave me around 40, she buys them in bulk) and then I swished the toothbrush in isopropyl alcohol and hot water after each time I used it. I used one toothbrush per day.

My dental hygienist works in an HIV clinic as a volunteer. People with HIV get thrush a lot, too. She said that if you get an eyedropper or the kind of syringe you use to give babies liquid medicine, you can just kind of paint your tongue and mouth with the Nystatin instead of swishing it. You don't have to use as much, it doesn't taste as awful, and it works just as well. Just squirt a small amount all over the inside of your mouth.

If your mom is not leaving the house, they use a chemical called Gentian Violet on babies with thrush. You get it from the pharmacy counter in the drug store, though you don't need an Rx for it. You paint it all over the inside of your mouth and lips. HOWEVER, it stains your whole mouth and lips a deep, vivid blue-ish purple. Hence the Don't Leave The House For Several Days warning.

--
Aloha,
Catharine

Emotions exist to provide alibis for inexcusable behavior.
-- Sunny the Parakeet, "Frisco Pigeon Mambo"



Subject: Re: Hello Hello
From: rosewitch@webtv.net (**Miss @nnie**)
Date: 3/1/01 3:10 AM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <12981-3A9E040C-107@storefull-113.iap.bryant.webtv.net>

Suzi...
Just thought of some stuff that might not be on my page.  The 5-FU (hubby and I laughed about this drug's abbreviation...very ap-pra-po for what we are going through with all of this chemo crud)  I was on CM*F* for my chemo...but the 5-FU is as far as I was concerned, was hard on my eyes when I would go outside. I found I needed sun glasses everytime I stepped outside. My eyes became very sensitive to any bright light I was exposed to....I wound up wearing my sun glasses in the hospital during treatments. The lights are always very bright in a hospital setting. The onco. nurses once in awhile would shut the lights down for me...I was in a room all by myself. [perks of having hubby work for the hospital]

I do believe that I read somewhere that you should take extra precautions with your skin also when you are exposed to alot of sun. I was told by one of my oncology nurses that a sun blocker with a very high spf [?] rating would be advised. Should be anyway...but this has a tendency to make you skin more sensitive to the sun.

Right now...depending on where you are located.....that might not be a concern. Certainly isn't here right now...I'm actually freezing my @ off up here in Northwest Ohio.

Now this may have no bearing on what you will go through...but I had a terrible time with my hands. My fingers keep drying and splitting open on me.
I was sitting reading a book one night...trying to relax enough to get some rest and looked down at the book and there was blood on the page.
That was an expierence in itself.
The oncology nurse's were ribbing me one day when I came in and I had bandages on just about every finger [good naturedly of course, they are great women] They asked me "been playing with the Ginzu knives again, I see huh?"

Another thing I might want to add here if no one else does...which I have seen others say this in previous posts when someone has asked about chemo.

The oncology nurse's are your best source of information, I think so anyway. They work with these women everyday, and have alot more "hands on expierence" with all aspects of this...more so then the Oncologist themselves.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers dear...You, my friend, have come along way just since coming here and posting to all of us...My chemo was different yes [cmf 6 cycles/6 months/2x monthly/2on/2off schedule]....but it was chemo never the less and anything you think I can help you with...Please do not hesitate to ask....That's what we are all here for. To come together, and help in whatever way we can.

I will be forever grateful to all the wonderful people in here....They are the best! The kindness, warmth, and compassion in here in absolutely second to none.
take care there dear...annie

When life seems unfair ~~ remember
"Reach up as far as you can...and God will reach down the rest of the
way"
~annie~ =AE



Subject: Re: Hello Hello (kinda long)
From: "Linda Black" elf.lass@mindspring.com
Date: 3/1/01 9:22 AM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <97lm4s$hid$3@slb2.atl.mindspring.net>

Kytril, no problems at all. It also didn't help me much, but apparantly I am an unusual case. Compazine (perchlorperazine) has been around for a long time and is extremely useful for most people. I couldn't take it due to a bad reaction. Read the prescription information carefully so you will recognize any bad reactions.. I did but forgot the information and thought I was so incredibly sick due to the chemo. Suffered for four days before I realized it wasn't the chemo. If you do have a reaction (very rare, per my chemo nurse, she had only seen it once or twice before in 20 years) benadryl helps get your head back to normal. For the chemo, one thing nobody warned me about is when your hair starts to grow back it almost always comes back gray! I don't remember how old you are, I was stunned. I think it's gone back to normal now, it's been 2 months since I dyed it and still no gray roots.I've been on Tamoxafen for a year or so now, most noticeable side affect is hot flashes, 400-600 vitamin E taken in the morning helps a lot. I've been complaining about memory side affects but I'm not really sure if it is the Tamoxafen. Onln one other person on this NG has described symptoms anywhere near as bad, so I wouldn't expect tow worst. Keep in mind, you can always quit taking the Tamoxafen later if the side affects are too bad for you. I'm still taking it because I figure anything that helps keep me alive is a good thing. ;-).
I hope this helps. As for the crying, other people have answered that better than I could. I've had my crying jags and just get through them one way or another. (Freaked the nurses at the hospital out, as they had gotten used to me as this super cheerful person who was dealing with everything so well. They kept saying how much they admired me.)
Hugs,
Linda.



Subject: Re: Chemotherapy
From: Boomer Boomerunderscorebaby@hotmail.com
Date: 10/18/00 8:35 AM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <39ED98F6.1F10@hotmail.com>

Lbucc wrote:

I'm going to take all these ideas and make a "chemo basket" for my friend who will be starting chemo soon.

Here's what I've got so far:

hairnet
jello, puddings (already made)
sugarless gum
a couple of good paperbacks
sugar free candies (oh hell, why not sugared candies?)
water bottle
screen thingie for bathtub
a printout of these notes
comfy sponge and liquid soap for sponge baths (I'll learn today whether she's
having lumpectomy or mastectomy)
thermometer
cheap travel-type game (checkers? chess?)
deck of cards
plastic utensils
Senakot
Microwavable heating pad
pineapple juice
ibuprofen for any bone pain that might crop up
a fan in case you have hot flashes
sunblock (her skin got photosensitive)
her cozy chenille robe
biscotti
wintergreen gum (for metal mouth)
lemon drops (for metal mouth)
gameboy with some non-thinking games (i.e., tetris)



Subject: Re: Hello Hello
From: "Peg Dietrich" snpdietrich@acd.net
Date: 3/1/01 10:40 AM Eastern Standard Time
Message-id: <1Run6.210$wz1.2038@newsfeed.slurp.net>


> Suzie, Kytril and Prochlorperazine (Compazine) are antinausea
> medications. I wouldn't argue even a little bit about whether I
> should take them.

I'm on Compazine for 24 to 36 hours after chemo. It works great for me! But I've been told that it can make you drosey. I've found that I take long naps the weekend after chemo. (My treatments are on Friday.) I am also on Anzemet for the first three days after treatments.

I am going to tell you a story about my first treatment, so that you can learn from my stupidity. My chemo had been delayed for two months, so I had lots of time to read messages and prepare for this. I was given the Anzemet, to be taken the first three days following chemo. I was also given Compazine to use if the Anzemet didn't work enough. Well, someone on this board had a bad reaction to Compazine, so I decided I wasn't going to take it. I had my chemo on Friday, felt OK on Saturday, nausea on Sun, nausea on Mon, nausea on Tues. By Wednesday, I decided this was stupid and I took the Compazine. Viola! No more nausea!

What I'm trying to say is, this is not the time to be SuperMom. Do you remember the song "I am Woman, Hear Me Roar"? Well, this is not the time to "roar". No one every died from unswept floor or a sink of dirty dishes. If someone offers your kids a ride, accept. You can bake them brownies when you feel better. If someone offers to bring in supper, dig out the thank-you notes and accept. Go to the meetings you feel like, and skip the rest. Everyone will understand.

Every three weeks, we stock up on those meals-in-a-bag. Dump them in the pan and 10 minutes later, supper. Stock up on frozen pot pies. I announced that my kids were going to cook supper one day a week, especially the week after my treatment. Although they, personally, think it is "cruel and unusual punishment" to have to cook supper, so far it's worked.

Another suggestion. Contact the ACS and find out about the "Look Good, Feel Better". They'll teach you about make-up and such. They also give you a bunch of free samples. I normally don't wear make-up, but it's nice to know how to if the need arises. Besides, they teach you how to draw in your eye-brows, in case you lose them.

If you need something "positive" from chemo, here are two: #1 for the first time in years and years, I'm not *allowed* to diet. Which is kinda fun! #2 I haven't had to shave my legs in weeks!

Keep the Faith,

Peg


Subject: Re: About to begin chemo>info requested
From: ww13 ww13@mediaone.net
Date: 5/1/01 10:47 AM Eastern Daylight Time
Message-id: <3AEECC7A.E4303CBF@mediaone.net>

Dear Kaye,

I can relate to your feelings about not wanting to go to chemo. I was happy to have my lumpectomy and get the cancer out of me, but I felt like I was poisoning myself to take chemo. I also had watched my mom go through all the steps and die anyway, so my faith in the process wasn't very good. The first chemotherapy appointment, I felt like I was walking to the electric chair. It wasn't nearly as bad as I anticipated.

I made a music tape of cheerful, positive songs that were to cheer me on,..(like Marley's 3 little birds , "Don't worry 'bout a thing, cause every little thing gonna be alright!" And Alabama's "I believe there are angels among us, sent down to us from somewhere up above" And some love songs.) I took that with me and listened to it before and during some treatments. The first treatment, I got a mystery book-on-tape and ear buds. My husband and I each wore one so we listened to the story, rather than pay attention to what was going on all around us. It helped a lot.

The people in the chemo unit were wonderful. They were careful to explain everything. I found that a warm pack on my hand helped make the drug administration more comfortable. They adjusted the flow of saline to help reduce any discomfort I had too. Tell them if you are worried about anything that is happening and they will help you.

I received Kytril and some IV drugs for nausea and against any allergic reaction that might occur. I think Decadron was one of the IV drugs. Kytril was the anti nausea med I got to take at home as well. It was horribly expensive, but worth every penny to me. I never vomited! I felt yucky for most of the first week after the first treatment, but not as bad as I expected. Definitely tell them if the meds are not working for you. They have an arsenal to fight nausea.

I did not get the mouth sores that others had. Any time I felt even a beginning of a small sore, I used baking soda on a Q-tip applied to the spot. I did have taste distsortion that annoyed me. None of my standard comfort foods were at all desirable. I actually found spicy foods were better for me to cut that sweet, sticky taste I was having. I think you have to find what works for you. I froze mandarin orange slices to snack on. They were cold and clean tasting. I changed my toothpaste to a ginger based one, which is weird, but wasn't as sweet as our standard.

I have read not to take antioxidant types of things during chemo because they are designed to fight cell death, and of course, death of cancer cells is exactly what we want! I stopped taking everything including Vitamin E.

I lost my hair on day 14 after the first chemo treatment. I ran my hand through it and a bunch came out and so I pinched a bit of it and rocked it back and forth and it came away in my hand as though it wasn't mine. I removed the rest of it the same way. I saved a few bunches of it, bundled in rubber bands. I had a really hard time even speaking about hair loss before it came out. I was just sick over losing my hair. Oddly, after it was gone, I felt better! I shaved my scalp and decided my head was better looking than I expected. At home, I was often hairless, but I wore my wig anytime I was in public. I can't explain how that happened.

I guess we get through what we need to, because we really haven't got much choice. Good luck. May your course of therapy be as well tolerated as mine was!

Wendy